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The Famine Blog

I Can Relate To Wonder Woman

BY 30 HOUR FAMINE TEAM

By Becky Gilbert

Last week an impromptu Girl’s Night turned into an opportunity to watch Wonder Woman again. It was fantastic! Very few movies in the last few years have lived up to the hype, but Wonder Woman certainly did!

At one point of the movie Diana (Wonder Woman) leaves her home, the only place she has ever known, and travels with Steve—one of the heroes of the movie—to London. Diana traveled to find Aries, the god of war, in hopes of putting a stop to the war. When Diana arrives in London, Steve and his secretary work hard to help Diana ‘fit-in’ with the rest of society. They were embarrassed by her way of dressing and thought her weapons would draw attention to their plan to stop the war. What really struck me about this part of the movie was that Diana seemed to have no idea that she didn’t fit in and was fairly annoyed at the idea that she should cover up what made her unique.

I can relate to Wonder Woman—how about you?

As a college student, I was certain about God’s call on my life and I entered the Biblical Studies degree program to learn all I could and prepare myself for ministry with youth. It was a huge shock to find out that there were people—classmates, even—who were upset and embarrassed that I thought God would call me into ministry. Even my college advisor asked me at one point if I wanted to add some education courses to my schedule “in case the ministry thing didn’t work out.”  What?!? Was I going crazy? All of my life, growing up in church, I heard/learned/experienced people who were called by God to become pastors, youth pastors, musicians, teachers, doctors. God calls people and God had called me to youth ministry. Like Diana, there was no question in my mind what I needed to do. Much like Diana, I charged forward into ministry; and like Diana, was fairly annoyed at people who seemed to have the idea that I was doing something wrong.

Most of us who work with teenagers will receive pushback about our calling. Sometimes that’s in the form of a backhanded compliment (“I don’t know how you do it; I’m glad that someone works with teenagers, but I never could!”). I received resistance because of my gender; but I know so many youth workers—male and female—who hear voices of judgment or suspicion merely for your choice to pour yourself into the lives of teenagers.

It has been more than 20 years since I first questioned my calling—but they were not able stop the calling God placed on my life. I would love to tell you that all these years later, I’m past people questioning my calling. I would like to say that, but I would not be telling the truth. Sometimes I think about doing something easier, when it seemed that the fight to do what God called me to do was not worth it.  Looking out over the group of strong students and young adults I have had the privilege to do ministry with, I wonder how many of them feel the same way? God is still moving and God is still calling men and women of faith to get involved and be part of His mission.

So ask yourselves, youth pastors, youth leaders and youth volunteers: which of your students feel called to impact the world, called to follow the invitation of Jesus, but are told that they’re too young, too inexperienced, or “not ready” in some other way? Don’t make them hide, change or ‘fit in’. Give them a sword and a shield and let them fight.

We Are Better Together

BY 30 HOUR FAMINE TEAM

By Mike Cunningham

“Each one of us can make a difference. Together we make change.”

-Barbara Mikulski

My wife and I recently adopted our son, Tiyamike, from the country of Malawi in southeast Africa. It’s called the Warm Heart of Africa and for good reason. It’s a beautiful country with beautiful people who love deeply, appreciate the small blessings in life and greatly value relationships to the point where everyone is family.

With family comes great love, joy and peace; however, it can also include miscommunication and misunderstanding. Learning how to love and communicate is hard enough when you speak the same language and are from the same culture. When you’re trying to integrate two cultures together, at times, it can get messy and it takes a lot of patience, commitment to one another, and leaning into conflict when necessary.

In our current cultural climate, we are forced by the powers that be to pick a side and then the expectation is for you to stay on your side, regardless of the situation, issue or social context. We have lost the arts of empathy, compassion and listening to understand another’s heart. We have replaced them with selfishness for our own agendas; greed to satisfy our insatiable desire for more and to numb our feelings of discontent; pain because we have been hurt and it’s easier to hurt back instead of seeking forgiveness; fear of what and who we don’t know.

We lack unity.

The apostle Paul gave a roadmap to help the church in Ephesus understand the importance of unity

“Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love. Make every effort to keep yourselves united in the Spirit, binding yourselves together with peace. For there is one body and one Spirit, just as you have been called to one glorious hope for the future.” Ephesians 4:2-4 NLT

We are better together. In the church. Outside of the church. Church and culture colliding. Different cultures learning to tango. When our hearts are bent towards what we can give and what we can learn from those who are different, that is a future full of hope.

The 30 Hour Famine has always been about bringing people together for a purpose. To be a blessing. To give. To Learn. To empathize. To see the common humanity we all share. To bring healing to brokenness. To bring hope for a better future. To create space where unity abounds.

We are better together!

Famine Weekend: Offer Yourself — As a Living, Thriving Sacrifice

BY 30 HOUR FAMINE TEAM

By Ross Carper

The hard church pew felt like a rock digging into my body, causing me to wonder what was causing me more anguish: my aching back, my pain-throbbing stomach, or my racing mind. As a brand new youth director, I was in charge of the 30 Hour Famine for the first time, and the 60-some humans under my watch had all been asleep for several hours. I hadn’t slept a wink, and wasn’t sure I would.

You see, I had failed in that most basic, clichéd way a minister can fail: I hadn’t practiced what I’d preached. When it came to hydration, prioritizing great sleep in the nights before the Famine, eating a well-balanced last meal before the fast, and following the packing list–you know, THE PACKING LIST I HAD WRITTEN–I was batting .000.

Sure: my heart was in the right place. The Famine is a big deal in my church, and in my attempt to lead well, I had put all my energy into this group of young teenagers and their adult leaders. We’d gone through weeks of engaging with global injustice; we’d raised tons of money toward our Famine goal, and I had put zero energy into some simple self-care tasks that would allow me to thrive during the meticulously planned event itself.

In that dark moment around 3:30am, I felt pretty powerless. I didn’t have a pillow or sleeping pad, and this whole sleep-on-the-church-pew idea was about as productive as my half dozen painful trips to the restroom (I’ll spare you those details). There was nothing I could do to get through the night I was experiencing.

I remembered whining HARD as a child when my mother enforced a no-TV household during Lent. “Offer it up,” she would say as I pouted about missing a show. Lying on the pew that night, I connected her statement with Romans 12:1: “Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God–this is your true and proper worship.”

As I tried to “offer up” my pain, sickness, and exhaustion that night, it occurred to me how many people across the globe lie in anguish, night after night, struggling with chronic hunger, much more severe pain, and preventable illnesses. I considered the obvious difference between them and me: my privilege and riches mean that all will be made right, and fast. This was Friday night, and no matter how difficult it would be to pull off the remaining 1,086 details of the Famine event the next day, by Saturday night I would be in my own perfect bed with a stomach full of food and clean water.

For so many of our neighbors facing extreme poverty, including children, there isn’t an end in sight. The full weight of this seemed to press me into that church pew, and I just spent time with that reality, for a long while. I fell into some pretty real prayer and lament for these little ones: my students, and the children for whom we were fasting and fundraising. And before or since, I don’t know if I’ve had a better night of “true and proper worship” in that sanctuary.

This year will be my 8th famine. Since that first one, I’ve learned that these moments of authentic sacrifice will seek me out in one way or another, so it’s okay to be much better prepared.

When I take care of myself in the ways I hadn’t that first year, I am still able to offer my body as a living sacrifice, but as a thriving one, too. I’m able to be wholly present with the students or leaders who, like me, did a poor job of following directions and are in some real pain: physical, emotional, or both. Often, students get hit all of a sudden with the reality of why we are doing this, and things get real–in an imperfect, gritty, spiritual, beautiful way.

Maybe this year’s 30 Hour Famine is your first, or your 40th. No matter the case, thank you! You are doing something incredible with these students: you’re allowing them to walk that Jesus-like road of sacrifice (even in this small way), and to meet Jesus in it, because he is there. You’re doing something incredible alongside the children and families and communities who benefit from the Famine funds you raise: I’ve seen it with my own eyes.

So do what you can to thrive this weekend. Be smart. Pray. Embrace your tough moments of sacrifice and remember it is worship. Recognize your privilege. Lead your students and volunteers well. Offer it all up. It’s worth it.

5 Things to Know for Your 30 Hour Famine Event

BY 30 HOUR FAMINE TEAM

by Katie Swift, 30 Hour Famine Director

My favorite time of the year is finally here – it’s National Famine weekend! This weekend, tens of thousands of students across the United States will be going hungry to help hungry kids. That’s amazing! Whether you feel super prepared or you feel like the weekend snuck up on you and you just want more time, it’s going to be great.

Here are 5 things to keep in mind as you head into this weekend.

  1. You have a whole kit of resources to keep you busy! Dig out that kit from underneath the piles of things on your desk. In it, you’ll find guides full of games, activities, discussion questions, community service ideas, and more. Use it all or pick and choose what works best for your group. Can’t find it? Don’t worry – you can download the digital version online – just sign in and click on resources.
  1. Share real stories of children in need. On the flash drive in your kit, or on our YouTube channel (here for new groups, here for returning groups), you’ll find all kinds of videos that share stories of real children living in poverty. Play them to help your students understand that for them, this hungry feeling will only last for 30 hours, but for millions of children around this world, hunger is a daily reality.
  1. Fundraising is how you change the lives of starving children on the other side of the globe. Prayer is great – please pray! Putting yourself in someone else’s shoes is great – please fast to know what it’s like to feel hunger! But it’s the money that makes a real, lasting difference for a child who doesn’t have enough to eat. You might be thinking that I have to say that because it’s my job, but it’s so true. The money you raise is WAY more than a budget line item.

When you fundraise for the 30 Hour Famine, World Vision combines what you raise with all of the other groups, totaling millions of dollars, and spends those funds in the most effective way possible to help hungry children. That means that families are taught how to grow agriculture more efficiently, how to feed their children more nutritious meals, they are given livestock like goats and chickens, and in dire situations, they are given actual food aid that has immediate impact. And to make it better – the money you raise is multiplied 4x by grants! All of that means that children who are hungry today, as you read this blog post, might not be hungry in the coming months and years because of your group. They will be able to focus in school, grow tall and strong, and develop in ways that will benefit their families and communities for generations.

If you haven’t started fundraising yet, it’s not too late. Take some time at the beginning of your event to help your students set up online fundraising pages and email them out to their friends and family. You can even take a few minutes to have them call people! Or make a plan to get donations at church on Sunday after your event is over (take up an offering, make cookies for a bake sale, share your stories during the service).

  1. Help your students process what’s going on. For some students, this might be the first time they even realize there are hungry children out there. That’s a pretty big realization. Be sure to provide time for them to process that with small group (or large group) discussions. Take the time to connect with your students one-on-one between activities to just quickly ask how it’s going for them, what God is teaching them, and how this changes their perspective.
  1. Remember that God will use this experience. It gives me goosebumps to think about the impact that just this weekend can have. This experience has the ability to leave a lasting impact on your students. I recently heard a story about a student who is now in college studying to be an environmental engineer with a focus on water structures because of how the 30 Hour Famine impacted her. I, myself, did the 30 Hour Famine as a middle schooler and I have no doubt that it was one of the things that led me to be interested in development aid and now working at World Vision. If you’ve been doing the 30 Hour Famine for a few years, you probably have students that you’re thinking of right now whose trajectories have changed because of their experience. Multiply that by tens of thousands of students, and I’m in awe of how these young people are changing and will continue to change our world for the better. God will work in your students this weekend, whether the programming is perfect or not, I am sure of it.

Please let us know how it goes! You can email us at 30hfsupport@worldvision.org or post pictures and stories in the 30 Hour Famine Facebook group. And if you have any last-minute questions in the next couple of days, don’t hesitate to email or call 1.800.7.FAMINE (1.800.732.6463). We’re praying for you!

Knowing and Being Known: Helping Youth Find Their Identity

BY 30 HOUR FAMINE TEAM

By Andrew Esqueda

This last year we realized that our students (and many of us leaders) were searching for their identities. I mean, this is something that we fundamentally know; but it was starting to become more apparent in our youth group. Many of our students, especially high schoolers, were asking: “Who Am I?” It’s an important question to ask. The problem was that they didn’t have the resources to help them begin to answer the question posed. So, we began a teaching series on identity. The basis of the series was the phrase Knowing and Being Known. The phrase comes out of the conviction that we were created to know God and to be known by God, as well as to know others and be known by others.

Some of our students asked–and you maybe asking as well–what does the phrase “knowing and being known” have to do with identity? It seems that it’s more about relationships? Well, that’s it—it is about relationships! So many of us have become concerned about who we are, and when we address that concern it is exclusively reflexive and not relational. But, the truth is that we cannot, and we were not created to, know ourselves in abstraction from one another, or in abstraction from God. In introducing this idea to our students they found huge relief in the fact that who they are isn’t determined exclusively by them. They were a little confused by this idea at first, but then it became a huge relief for them. Our identity is not exclusively determined by others either; however, it is informed by them. It’s informed by the reality that we are made in God’s image, that we are rescued by Christ, and that we are called to be relational participants in God’s Kingdom; it is informed by our relationships with our family members, our friends, and all those we encounter.

There’s this great theory in quantum mechanics called “entanglement”. It’s theorized that when sub-atomic particles split that the new particles keep a connection to one another. When the particles that used to be connected are now their own individual sub-atomic particles they maintain a relationship; thus it has been observed that when one of the particles moves the other one will as well. The sub-atomic particles are inside the nucleus of atoms and atoms make up all matter, and sub-atomic particles are constantly splitting. Therefore, even at the level of the cell we are relational beings.

When we realize that our identity is wrapped up in God and our relationships with other people, we come to the comforting reality that in seeking to find our identity we are not alone. That’s a comforting idea for our youth, and certainly for you and me.

In the Still of the Night

BY 30 HOUR FAMINE TEAM

by Tash McGill

Is there a match made more in heaven than 30 Hour Famine and the lock-in? A room full of hungry teenagers and some worn out leaders? The rush of that last meal shared together followed by hours of games and activities.

I like to start with giant water balloon volleyball, then work our way into karaoke before settling into movie marathons as the 2am munchies of a traditional all-nighter set in.

And then, it comes. The still of the night. Usually between the 1st and 2nd movie when the excitement of staying up all night has faded into comfortable sleepiness. The still of the night is when whispered conversations can turn from schoolyard gossip to heartfelt wrestling. Let’s be honest, parents and youth workers know the power of hunger and exhaustion to release vulnerability.

It’s a power that can be used for good and for evil, the same reason we do a response time on the last day of camp, right? But all cynicism aside – I love the still of the night when the walls are a little easier to break down and new relationships can be formed while older relationships go even deeper.

And it’s often the time we can be tempted to breathe a sigh of relief and hope to get some sleep ourselves. But I encourage to stay tuned in for the vulnerability that students experience in the quiet hours of a lock-in.

The power of shared experience is the single most impactful tool for human transformation that is known to us. The pivot point of turning insight into action is critical to long-lasting change. The 30 Hour Famine is built on this principle of understanding world hunger issues and taking that insight into action.

And in the still of the night our chance to have conversations that move insight and understanding into action is at an all-time high.

So I’ll never groan in anticipation of another all-nighter or lock-in. In fact, a group of teenagers and adults hungry together is a perfect recipe for change.

Go be hungry this month and enjoy your late night conversations.

What To Do When You Don’t Know What To Do

BY 30 HOUR FAMINE TEAM

By Marty Estes

If you’ve been in ministry for very long, chances are you’ve face a drought. Now, I’m not talking about the literal kind of drought, where there’s no rain and you have to ration your water. What I AM talking about is the drought you face when it seems like the Heavens are shut up, you’re not hearing from God, and there seems to be no direction or vision for what’s next. This is particularly nerve-wracking when you’re the leader. The main vision caster. The one who is supposed to empower and inspire your volunteers to go reach the masses and do excellent ministry. Yet, there you sit, on another random day in your office, wondering what to do next. Anyone else identify? Surely I’m not the only one.

Here’s the truth: there are going to be times in ministry where you flat-out feel like you’re wandering in the wilderness. Youth ministry is just not a continuous stream of burning bushes, parted seas, and voices from above. In the midst of wandering seasons, however, we still are asked to function, provide programs and direction for our students; and not just that, to grow them! The hardest part of ministry at this time is that you can feel as if you aren’t even growing yourself, let alone your students. However, we aren’t alone.

Abram knew how it felt.  Long before he was Abraham, father of the Hebrew nation and venerated icon of scripture, he was Abram, a man of self-made wealth who had it made. At 75 years old, when many people are winding down, Abram was just getting started. In the midst of all that comfort, God’s voice popped in and turned his world upside down:

“The Lord said to Abram, “Go from your country, your people, and your father’s household to the land I will show you.” ~ Genesis 12:1

Excuse me. What? With that one command, God asked Abram to walk from a life of ease and certainty into a place of uncertainty, reckless trust, and blind faith. But, isn’t that exactly where God asks us to go? As you minister to students and their parents on a daily basis, please don’t try to tell me you have a complete roadmap for every single thing you’ll face and every little thing you’ll do. It’s impossible. Because ministry is the land of uncertainty, where schedules made for weeks can change in an instant. All it takes is a phone call, a text, or a meeting.  Or maybe for you, like me, it’s listening to the doubts, fears, and questions we have about our own ability to do this thing called student ministry. And there, in that moment, is the drought. I know you’ve felt it. You’ve felt it as you’ve wrapped your arms around another hurting teen, not knowing really what to say about the painful situation they’re in. You’ve dealt with it as your own family has faced a hard week, you’ve been overworked, and it’s Wednesday and you haven’t even been able to touch anything for student ministry yet because of getting asked to do other things. You’ve walked through it with your volunteers, trying to figure out what to do with them to effectively use their gifts to meet needs for your students.

And what do you do in the midst of all this, when you simply don’t know what to do?

Trust.

Trust that, like Abram, God will lead you to the place you need to be. That he will tell you when to stop and when to go. When to speak and when to be silent. When to move and when to stay still. And you pray. Pray with full abandon, telling God everything and asking him to show you where you’re going. It never, ever hurts to ask! He may not say it, but He will show you when the time is right.

Abram’s journey lasted another 100 years, saw him take a new name, and not even reach the Promised Land of his people. But, where Abraham is buried is not what we remember most about him. Instead, we remember Abraham’s faithfulness, the trust he had in God, and his ability to follow through on God’s requests even if he didn’t see the endgame. If you are in a season in your ministry where you don’t know what to do, remember this: God is still at work, even when we can’t see. Hold on like Abram, and God will use you, too.

Creative Leadership

BY 30 HOUR FAMINE TEAM

By Ryan Schaible 

When was the last time you watched the movie Apollo 13?

If you answered something like “Never” or “It’s been a long time” – you are welcome (nay, required) to stop reading this blog to go and watch it, but please do come back.

Seriously…I’ll wait…

Still with me? Cool.

ISN’T IT AWESOME?!?!?

There is an important scene in Apollo 13 – one that I’ve used often when training ministry leaders. A team of NASA engineers need to find a way to build a new oxygen filter for the spacecraft, using only parts available to the astronauts while they are hurling through space. The engineers are almost literally tasked with finding a way to fit a square peg into a round hole.

This is a perfect illustration of CREATIVE LEADERSHIP.

Ministry leadership requires the continual development of so many different skills, but too often the importance of CREATIVITY becomes under-developed or (in some cases) neglected all together. When I talk about creativity, I don’t mean your ability to design a cool ministry logo or having to write a new hit worship song… CREATIVE LEADERSHIP is about finding new ways to do things no one else is doing, to see new things no one else is seeing, even when the resources seem slim.

Creativity can be defined as simply the use of imagination and originality. YOU have creativity right now; you just might be overlooking it (in yourself or in your team).

If tomorrow I could double your ministry budget (or in some cases just GIVE you a budget to start with), what is the first thing you would start doing? What if I quadrupled your budget?

We all have that mental list of things we want to do in and through our ministry, but we just can’t do it because the resources just aren’t there. We want to build or fix up a facility, buy better equipment, fund new programs, or finally fix that carpet stain in the sanctuary from that Middle School Ministry game three years ago that went horribly, horribly wrong.

But we can’t fix the problems because we don’t have the resources, right? So we make excuses, dance around the problems, or pass the blame…and our ministry is hindered in the process. Not hindered by a lack of resources, but by our own lack of creativity.

It is time for more CREATIVE leadership. What CAN you do with the resources you DO have available? Remember that resources do not just equal dollars. Where are the PEOPLE you can turn to? What SITUATIONS or EVENTS can you get a foot in the door? What NEW OPPORTUNITY is right around the corner?

When we are leading from a healthy place emotionally and spiritually, the problems we see in ministry do genuinely come from a good place. Perhaps we want a better facility because we want to provide a safe and fun place for people to gather, or we want equipment to make or teaching more engaging and effective so more people can clearly hear the good news of Jesus! Check your heart – your motivations are not bad. What might be missing is a little bit of CREATIVITY. What new thing can you do right now to make your ministry stronger? What haven’t you tried? What is no one else in your community doing? Get creative and start seeing things with new eyes. Set a new exciting vision.

A good, exciting, and creative ministry vision doesn’t cost a dime.

Yes, a life of ministry means sometimes you wake up feeling like you are trying, day after day, to fit a square peg into a round hole. You’re not gaining any ground – you’re like a hamster running on a wheel. Pick your metaphor…but perhaps what the world needs, what the Kingdom of God needs, are more people willing to find ways to fit that mismatched peg. Scripture is filled with countless stories of people who did CRAZY things (have you read the prophets?) because they were all-in when it came to following God, and they weren’t concerned about facilities, or budgets, or equipment.

The needs of ministry are real. The resources will always seem lacking. Find new opportunities, set a new vision, and get creative.

Thinking Through Fundraising

BY 30 HOUR FAMINE TEAM

By Daniel Kiefer

Summer is four or five months away and if you’re like me, you have already booked your camps, mission trips, activities, over nights, and various other events that keep your students engaged all summer long. No matter what your summer looks like, most of the things we’ve planned cost money, which is something most parents don’t have a lot of. And when deadlines come around we are left begging parents, “Show me the money!” Many parents are left saying, “We don’t have any.” This is where you sweep in and shower them with all the fundraiser cash that you have collected. So how do you best leverage your fundraising super powers?

Build a Team

First you have to build a team of invested parents. Often times we overlook the greatest resource we have: parents. Get all the parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles that you can to be a part of your fundraising team. This team will spread the load of work among many people instead of you bearing the workload yourself. Cast your vision to this team and get them to invest their time and talents to help raise the money needed. Now that you’ve built your team you need to…

Cast your Vision

Let this team know what your goal is for the amount of money you need and why you need to raise it. For instance, our goal is to raise $150 per student going to camp. We need to raise that much because camp is expensive and most families have multiple students going to camp. But more importantly we believe that camp is an experience for students where they can have an encounter with God that can change their lives. Once your team has bought into your vision, figure out which fundraisers are going to get you the…

Biggest Bang for your Efforts

For years, I would overwork myself trying to squeeze every last dollar out of 3, 4 or even 5 fundraisers. We did car washes, catalog sales, discount cards, and parents nights out, lunches after church, doughnut sales and even car washes. Did I mention car washes? We would do ok, raising on average $500-600 for each event. But the effort involved in these fundraisers never matched the payoff. At most we would get about $50-60 total per student raised, which isn’t really a lot compared to the amount they owed for the events. So I began to look for the best way to raise the most money we could. I settled on 2 fundraisers that were high on the profit margin and began to focus on those two fundraisers alone. Now certainly there are always tweaks to make to these fundraisers and this is where you learn to…

Get Creative

Think of outside-the-box ways to promote your fundraisers. Sometimes when we reuse the same fundraiser year after year it tends to loose its momentum and in turn it doesn’t do as well as it did the year before. Find ways to promote it differently, or put a new twist in it. This is where your team of parents can help. Sit down with them and find new or better ways to do these fundraisers. Once you have all your planning done it is time to…

Delegate

Delegating different tasks will help you avoid getting burned out. You cannot do your job alone; you’ve got to have help. I am a firm believer that the more people you have helping the more successful you’ll be, not just in raising these funds but overall in your ministry. Find people who can do the jobs that you cannot do. Find people to do the jobs that you’re not skilled in and let them work their magic.

The best two fundraisers that I’ve ever done are our annual golf tournament and and an envelope fundraiser. The golf tournament is a lot of work but it can be a huge success. The one key to our golf tournament is selling hole sponsorships. Our goal this year is to sell 2 per hole and this is where my team of parents will come in and help. They have way more connections in the community to business that are willing to donate money for camps just to advertise their business. The envelope fundraiser is not original with me, I found it here: http://www.youthministrymedia.ca/blog/best-youth-ministry-fundraiser/. This fundraiser is very customizable and will work in a lot of situations. You can do any number of envelopes and it is all 100% profit. The thing I like most about this fundraiser is ANYONE can participate in it. Some people can donate $500 and some can donate $1 but no matter the amount given it all goes to help a student in your ministry.

So what are your fundraisers that have been successful? How have you built your fundraising team? What creative new ways have you put a twist on a reused fundraiser?

Teaching Girls to be Intolerant

BY 30 HOUR FAMINE TEAM

By Kathy Jackson

The end of 2017 and the beginning of the new year of 2018 has been pretty interesting so far with the #metoo movement.  How do you address this in your youth ministry?  Do we just go on about our business and ignore this movement or do we talk about it head on?  How many girls, soon to be women, do you have?  What do you want to give to them to be able to deal with what they may confront when they move into their “real” world experience?

At the first meeting this past fall of our young teen Girl’s Bible Study, I passed around paper and asked them to choose one word per girl to describe themselves and the others sitting around the table.  Much to my chagrin the most common word was “pretty”.  Really?  “Pretty”?  That is what was tops in their mind…how they looked.  After we thought about it, my co-leader and I couldn’t blame them.  These same girls (5th, 6th. and 7th graders) were just coming to us from wearing bows in their hair, Mary Janes, and bobby socks.  Everyone at church would say “Don’t you look pretty?” “How cute,” and other remarks about their clothes, hair, and shoes.  These are the only compliments they ever hear from our church goers. No one has taken the time to stop, talk to them about anything personal….only how they looked.

What role do we as youth leaders have in changing this conversation and thought process in our churches?  How do we get our leaders and congregants to describe our girls as “resilient,” “brave,” “strong,” “courageous,” “self-assured,” and “intelligent?”  Or do we have a role at all?  If we, as leaders, can’t change the way we describe them, how does this conversation ever change?

If we remove the politics from #metoo and get to the heart of the message, we will discover that it IS up to all of us as to how the next generation views the world.  What if we taught our girls to be “intolerant?”  That might surprise you! But what if we taught them to be Intolerant to everything Jesus wants us to be intolerant towards: poverty, sexism, racism, ageism, homelessness, food endangerment, and hypocrisy, just to name a few. Jesus wants us to be intolerant towards sin.

As we teach our girls to be “intolerant” we must also teach them to be loving in that intolerance. Micah 6:8 says “He has told you, O mortal, what is good; and what does the Lord require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?”  So we should teach our girls to be intolerant toward injustices. Injustices such as poverty, homelessness, food endangerment, racism and sexism plus the other things in our society today that Jesus would not tolerate.  We need to teach them to speak up and not be afraid as long as they are grounded in their faith. They need to be assured that Jesus wants them to speak up about injustice.

These days call for special teachings, teachings of Jesus’s intolerance against injustice and his wish for us to be intolerant but to also show mercy and kindness.